I realize its been a long time since i have posted anything. And that whatever small number of people used to come to my blog must have stopped coming a long time ago. However, I have a question that I hope you can help find an answer to.
The question that I have is, "What happens if you simply stop loving somebody the way you used to? What do you do?"
Remember I am not only talking about a boy-girl relationship. (And I am definitely not talking about MY own relationship). I am also talking about the other relations. Say you have a long time friend who comes to your house regularly. Or a office colleague who you have to share your projects with. What do you do if you start hating their guts for no apparent reasons. Has it ever happened to you? HAve you ever started "not liking" a person that you used to be fond of and you cannot find the reasons for this change?
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Ohh, such a difficult question that you've raised here;
I haven't experienced such situation till now, specially when it is without [any good] reason.
I think it's not so obvious for "hating their guts for no apparent reasons."
Naa!!
[btw, have you recently started to feel like that? I fear if one of them is me - {Or a office colleague who you have to share your projects with}]
No Sangharsha,
Its not you. Its not like i will tell you even if you are, but trust me, its not you.
I said "...office colleague who you have to share your projects with" just as an example of a person, with whom you HAVE to meet and interact on daily basis.
Once again, its not you,
Hmm.. philosophical aspect of life is predominant. [As jyotish says.]
Actually I am not at all trying to be philosophical. I am asking for suggestions.
May be the change in you is due to your ego. You have to say something to them(may be they did some better than you which you have never expected) and your ego won the love inside you with that person. So you feel you are "hating their guts for no apparent reasons", but the reasons are inside you may be in subconscious mind. Let them come front realize it. I am sure you will find the reason.
hmm..interesting proposition...and yes you may be right.
But you see, I am not after the reason why I don't like this person anymore. I may or may not know the reason for hating this person. Furthermore, the reason might or might not be significant.
The question is what do you do next? Do you keep smiling in the front or you in some way, let this person know that you don't feel the same way you used to about him/her.
Certainly you should tell your feelings. Because the more you supress the more your mind become poisionous. Let it come out. You will feel relaxed. Dont Kill yourself. Go by nature dont let it grow inside you otherwise more bitter fruit will come out of you.
you think its easy to tell a friend that you don't like him/her any more. Is it fair to that person? specially if you can't even give them the reason.
One more thing, i think I overstated it when i said "..if you start hating their guts". I shouldn't have said that. Sometimes it so happens that you simply stop liking the company of that person. You don't exactly hate him, but you just don't like him to be around you.
Hey
If that is the situation, just tell the truth and say the reason why you don't love anymore or feel about him/her as before.
Regards
Adipti
Seems to me sometimes you just done need the reason to feel differently. and what do you do if even you dont have (or know) the reason for the change in you.
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